L Woods Think Like a Whore, Act Like a Lady?

I, L Woods, am many things; “ladylike” is not one of them. I cannot be what society deems a true lady, because I am a firm believer that everyone, men and women alike, should be able to be open and honest about their sexuality.

It seems as though men can easily get away with openly talking about things like porn, jacking off, being horny, or getting laid because those topics are “manly” and just “a part of their nature.” How often do you hear a group of girls talking about how horny they are or how they “totally got it in” with a hot guy the night before? Sadly, not often enough.

For some strange reason, when a girl talks openly about these things, it’s out of the norm or “slutty.”

Why?

Is it supposed to remain a secret that females get horny? Are we supposed to pretend like we can go a month, week, or even a day without sex and it doesn’t affect us at all because we have a vagina?

How often have you heard that “well-known fact” that men think about sex every 6 seconds? People say it all the time and laugh because it’s totally fine since they’re men and it’s what is expected of them.

How often do you think women think about sex? My bet? Just as often as men. It’s pathetic that we “ladies” are told to hide it or else we risk being labeled as a whore, or *gasp* unladylike. Enjoying or thinking about sex on a regular basis does not make you a whore, it makes you a normal human being!

I have said many times before that it is a woman’s duty to please her man, and I strongly stand by this statement. That being said, it is also a woman’s duty to please herself. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both partners, not just for the guy. Men should not always have to be the initiators of sex either, I can guarantee no guy is going to turn down his girl when she’s horny and wants to get it in.

If being a lady means that we have to hide the fact that we enjoy getting off and getting others off, pretending like we never have dirty thoughts, or avoiding ever having a one night stand because it’s totally frowned upon, then who actually wants to be a lady?

I’d like to have my vagina and have it eaten too.

XOXOXOX  

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