Sarah Tabryn How I survived an evening with a Dominatrix

Alright gentlemen, listen up. Are you a pussy? Do you flinch when your girlfriend playfully pulls out your arm hair? Well, man up because word on the street is bondage is hot this year and only getting hotter.

A dominatrix is a female who engages in sexual domination towards a submissive (man or woman… or plural… hot), fancies bondage, sadomasochism and the like. Quite briefly, a dominatrix is a girl who has decided to unleash her inner bitch. MALES: Beware of the nice girls! Being so nice all the time in the real world is exhausting. They will jump at the chance to seductively smack you around behind closed doors. Trust.

But what about a shout-out to the girl subs? They don’t need advice. We can take it. And we like it. Dominate us… we yearn for it. Males on the other hand are not used to being taken control of. A girl will tie herself up and wait with a big smile on her face to be spanked. A guy will be reluctant. Men can’t deal with powerlessness. Take it from me… it’s HOT.

Men are afraid to hurt women because of all the lawsuits and shit. It’s cute. Females are a fragile sort. Males? They are built to take the pain, and thus, a dominatrix will smack a bitch. Hardcore. Also, if you have angered this lady in any respect, she will use it against you in her sexual dungeon of pain. Just a warning…

SO…. Are you a guy who is a little curious, but in all honesty is terrified by a fearless dom? No worries. Here are some tips:

1. Assume the worst

If you expect a nipple twist, you will receive something a LOT worse. If you anticipate that she will rip your nipple off, it will not be so bad. Take a couple of aspirin before your kinky romp in the sack and you’ll be spared a little extra pain. Your dick wants you to feel a little bit of pain. Let it get what it wants.

2. Agree with everything she says

Alright you cocky “I know everything” bitches. You suck. You are MY slave. Shut up! You will hear these things. Deal with it. If you adopt a “she is right…and I can accept that” attitude, you’ll be good. If you disagree with a dominatrix, she’ll get pissed and most likely backhand you. If you agree with her, you may get slapped, but not as hard. Also, if you agree with her consistently, she’ll probably let you cum because you’ve been a “good boy.” You may not be allowed to agree with her depending on what senses she decides to extinguish, so keep this in mind. You will have to surrender your complete control. Be quiet and still. This is what it means to be a sub. The dominatrix has decided to do most of the work. Embrace the fact that you will not have to do a lot. Also, if you are with an experienced chick, she’ll have lots of adventures up her sleeve, and it’ll be fun (scary). 

3. Go pee before you start

Like a young child who has to go on a long road trip, this tip is key for a submissive who doesn’t want to pee himself. Your dominatrix might have a pee fetish, and if you do not, trust me…. pee before you start! She MAY get pissed and smack you, but what would you prefer? Pick your battles. You are probably still asking why the fuck do I need an empty bladder for kink? Because you do. Picture this: your dom blindfolds you and walks away and then you hear scary noises and feel cold on your dick! Tell me you wouldn’t piss! Men are pussies when they are tied up and can’t see. You may think you aren’t. But you WILL get scared. To give off the illusion that you are calm, cool, and collected, make sure you won’t pee during the dominating foreplay and take a discrete bathroom break before the games begin. 

4. Obey her

“Suck on my toes!” Do it. “Wash my car!” Do it. “Take it up the ass!” For the love of all that is good and pure, DO IT! Just do it. Do it all. If you disobey your dominatrix, say good bye to an orgasm, for one thing. I know I sound harsh, but that’s the beauty of being kinky. It’s a harsh, harsh, sexual world. It’s so fucking awesome. When it comes to obeying your dom, she will probably offer up a ‘safe word’ you can say if you are not digging all the pain.

WORD OF WISDOM: Okay, although the safe word is a good idea, I mentioned before how dominatrixes are big fans of taking away sense after sense, and so, a safe word will become a safe mmph. Which is ineffective. Here’s a handy Sarah tip: instead of a safe word, how about a safe flail? Or a safe series of blinks? If I knee you in the jaw, it means stop. 

5. Surrender. Relax. Breathe. Enjoy.

Enough said.

Spicing up one’s sex life is like, the greatest thing of all time. It’s the reason I wake up in the morning. You WILL enjoy it. 

There is nothing wrong with coming. Find what makes you cum and DO IT! Especially if it involves a hot, ballsy, confident chick strutting around in leather and calling you her bitch. 

TIP: If you are seriously boggled by the wonderful world of dominating, google up some hot bondage porn to get an idea. If it really frightens you, you are either a pussy or maybe genuinely not into it. 

Until next time, remember: If it fits in your vagina, let it! If it makes your penis feel good, embrace it!

PS. Hot song for sexcapades: Pony by Ginuwine

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